Wednesday, November 09, 2005


So I've thrown myself into a new work project for the past 6 weeks. And I've been finding great satisfaction in being creative again. I love getting up in the morning and jumping right in. Starting something new is like falling in love. There's the initial buildup, thrill, the feeling that you can't wait to get back to it/him.
As I've been getting more and more involved, I find that the search for my perfect man has been eclipsed. Don't get me wrong. There are some great men out there. I still get emails from new men and am still in touch with men who seem to fit the bill. It's just that now, I have other things to focus on. I think this is healthier. I haven't made the search my whole life, just a fun part of it. And being busy means that the search process has to be as much fun as the work project. And when I do meet my perfect man, he'll fit into my life. Not be my whole life.


Anonymous said...

You find that your search for the perfect man has been eclipsed by a new work project? For six weeks?
You have a strange set of priorities, sistah.

Makes one wonder how often the thrill of a new project eclipses your life.

Tuesday, November 15, 2005

novembernightstar said...

Keep believing in love. Keep your heart open, keep searching. He's out there looking for you! You're gorgeous and soon you will see your true image reflected in the eyes of the man who loves you.

Saturday, November 26, 2005

canecorso said...

My girlfriend sent me your site because I had been looking for a good guy myself. It appears now that you've come to the same conclusion I have. Just live your life, be totally complete just as you are, stop searching to fill some spot that's empty. I believe this is truly how you will attract a good man. He will see you as able to take care of yourself, emotionally and financially, and he won't feel the possible threat of having to provide something for you. When I gave thought to this notion, it occurred to me - I would love to meet a man that was totally content with himself, not needy, not out for something, just perfectly complete as a single individual. Now THAT'S a turn on for me. And I can only conclude that being that type of person myself, would be very appealing to a great guy.

Sunday, December 11, 2005

Anonymous said...

I admire you for your creativity and courage to put up this site. I wish you luck in your search!

Sunday, December 18, 2005


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